[THEY HIDE THEIR ISSUES SO... well.... or maybe only Ciel and maybe only under most circumstances whoops]

You wouldn't. [and he almost boasts about why but catches himself at the last minute because he realised he'd be willingly give away more information about his situation. see he's learning!!]

My, that's a little vague. I can think of several occasions where you've elbowed your opportunities out of others. Narrow it down, would you?